We live in a world where we are
judged on our every single action. Judgements which are based on
assumptions, a common mindset or just mere perceptions. We are judged on
baseless reasons, reasons that aren't ours! What we feel or go
through will never ever be considered because it doesn't add spice to
the gossip.
Let’s face the truth, no matter how
much we hate people who judge, in the end we ourselves end up judging people.
We judge people on their smiles, on their tears, on their natures, on their
habits, on their every single step, without knowing their story, their reality.
Not only we judge others, we fear of
being judged. We try to act as genuine as possible, yet we fail.
Each person in this world has
his/her dark side which they hide, not only from others but also from themselves. We’re so used to of judging that we have started doing peoples
job, we've started labelling our own selves. We live in a
dilemma, if we are down, confused and going through a rough day we will never
show our real colours instead we end up faking our feelings.
For instance, if I am sad and down
for some reason, I’ll put on a bright smile because that’s my ultimate power
tool. I can easily fool others and most importantly myself that I am happy and
satisfied, when actually I am not! In the end I’ll end up making worse choices
in this state of enigma. But I won’t stop faking around because if I show
myself, “What will people think about me?”, “What will people say?”, such
thoughts will haunt me
This is what we all are doing to
ourselves.
Look around, you’ll find everyone
drowned in the sea of problems but like everyone else we’ll judge the book by
its cover! Why should we bother giving anyone a hand, like us they are
also living a “perfect life”. We are all imperfectly perfect, no matter whatever
we are going through we portray that “All Is Well”. Look around you’ll find
people fighting from broken hearts to hunger, from illiteracy to racism, from
abusive relationships to innocent deaths! If we say that this world is not a
good place its most probably because we haven’t done anything to make it a good
place.
We have failed to realize that we
all stand on the same dark path, where we can’t see anyone else, we just feel
ourselves in the darkness and conclude that its just us in the darkness and we
start faking out, like everyone else.
You just penned down the voice of millions, Fizza :)
ReplyDeleteWell the world will keep on judging us but the thing we can do is not give a damn to their opinion and be ourselves and keep on struggling hard for what we believe in!
Ya you are right! We must learn to ignore what should be ignored! :)
DeleteBy judging people, we are just showing to the whole world how we think that only we are right, and the whole world is wrong. And this self-righteous is the only thing that creates paths to loneliness.
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